To help older children adjust to newborn, which nursing suggestion is appropriate?

• A. Present the older children with a small gift and say it is from the baby.
• B. Ignore the older children while the baby adjusts.
• C. Limit visits from older children for several weeks.
• D. Tell older children the baby will be moved to another family.

Answer: (A)

Helping older children adjust to a newborn centers on inclusion and reassurance. Presenting the older child with a small gift from the baby creates a positive, concrete connection between them. It helps the older child feel involved and valued, framing the newborn as someone who gives them something special rather than someone who takes attention away. This simple gesture can ease jealousy, foster a sense of belonging, and set the stage for a cooperative relationship between siblings.

Other approaches undermine that adjustment. Ignoring the older child sends the message that their feelings don’t matter and can heighten insecurity. Restricting visits for weeks delays bonding and can increase anxiety and resentment. Telling the older child the baby will be moved to another family is frightening and inappropriate, eroding trust and safety.

Supportive alternatives include involving the older child in age-appropriate ways (choosing a baby outfit, helping with simple care tasks, or sharing a small responsibility), maintaining routines, reassuring the child that they are still loved, and setting aside one-on-one time with the parent to strengthen their bond with both siblings.